Family will love you as long your on there level, meaning making small money, being single like them and having an ok job… with an ok relationship. (You get where I’m going with this) But as soon as you evaluate yourself family members start hating, they’re really not happy for you. Some may pretend to be happy but peoples real feelings eventually come out.
To have a successful life sometimes you have to cut family members off to reach your goals. You can still love family but sometimes you have to make tough decisions to do your thing!